On Being Intersex… Or, I Am Not a Unicorn

by Leon Augustus Braxton, Jr. Many do believe that intersex people are like unicorns: a mythical creature that is rarely seen. Like unicorns, intersex has been largely unseen mainly due to the veil of secrecy and shame that intersex people feel. However, unlike the unicorn we are not a myth – we exist. Intersex people are […]

SEX+STL Clothing Optional Bowling Party: Friday, April 18th

Everybody, everybody, get your bowl on! Join us for (what we honestly believe to be) St. Louis’ first ever Clothing Optional Bowling Party. $20 gets you three hours of clothing optional bowling and/or billiards, shoe rental and free food. Cash bar (no outside beverages, please) Catering By Shameless Grounds Music provided by DJ Shawn Gaston […]

Melt (or Sex & Waffles on Cherokee Street)

We all know about smoking the customary after sex cigarette. But what do you do after phone sex? You eat waffles, that’s what! We here at SEX+HQ have always found waffles to be very sexy. Well, maybe not the actual waffle so much as the way the waffle receives the syrup. But always having syrup […]

Active Transportation for Health at Every Size (Part 1 of 2)

Here at Sex Positive St. Louis, from Clothing Optional Meetups to the World Naked Bike Ride, we’re all about body acceptance. So, when I heard that a friend from my undergrad days, personal trainer and mixed martial artist, Tracy Herold, was leading a discussion for TrailNet’s “TrailNet on Tap” series on Active Transportation for Health […]

Active Transportation for Health at Every Size (Part 2 of 2)

This is part two of my interview with martial artist and personal trainer, Tracy Herold, on the Healthy at Every Size movement  and TrailNet’s TrailNet on Tap:  Active Transportation for Health at Every Size. Part one can be read here. Check out TrailNet on Tap: Active Transportation for Health at Every Size, Wednesday, August 28th at 7pm at Urban Eats Cafe […]

What We Talk About When We Talk About Vanilla

by The Vanilla Life My blog is to thank for getting the chance to write this guest post.  That little piece of the internet is about sex as I experience it and issues related to that.  More specifically, I write about what it’s like to be both vanilla and not; vanilla in the sense that […]

Buy a Fucking T-Shirt!

SEX+STL T-Shirts will help you get all the girls. Or guys. Whatever you’re into. We don’t care. We’re Sex Positive St. Louis! If we cared, we’d be Sex Negative St. Louis. Did you know that SEX+STL T-Shirts are made in the USA by union workers paid a living wage? No, you didn’t know that, because […]

Show Me Release Party!

Everybody needs a little release… Celebrate the release of Show Me, Sex Positive St. Louis’ collection of 10 pieces of short erotic fiction. Hot tales featuring places, cultures, and experiences that make life – and sex – in St. Louis unique! This will be the first collection of erotic stories to focus on Midwestern urban and suburban […]

Trans Folk Welcome

by David Wraith Most of the time, when Team SEX+ is out and about, it’s at our own events where most people we meet are fellow travelers.  The summer months gave us the chance to get out in the community and interact with people who are less familiar with who we are and what we […]

A Weekend with Lee Harrington & Mollena Williams

How much would you pay to see an internationally known sex educator? How far would you travel? What if I told you that you don’t have to leave St. Louis? What if I told you that you could see not one, but two internationally known sex educators? What if I told you that you had […]