CFNM Penis Party!

Most of the events hosted by Sex Positive St. Louis are open to all genders. Occasionally, we’ll offer an event for women only. They are ALWAYS wonderful, a great opportunity for women to explore their sexuality safely, in a setting that is comfortable for them. In the spirit of equality, some of our male members requested an event for […]

A SEX+STL Testimonial from M

M is a woman in her 20’s… I heard that the SEX+STL community was a good, welcoming one, and I caught a glimpse of that warmth at the Topless Tea Party. It’s hard to find a group of women who are truly, truly kind, but everyone was. Really. The veterans were happy to include the […]

SAR Opportunity in St Louis!

See this flyer for details! Among many other things featured in this enlightening workshop, Kendra and her partner Matthew will be speaking on non-monogamy or sex work or something super provocative! The talk they gave last year was voted most interesting! 2015 SAR Flyer Tweet

A SEX+STL Testimonial from Kate

Kate is a woman in her 50’s… I’ve been a member of SEX+STL for about a year and 1/2 now. I call it Sex Education for adults (which in my opinion is sorely needed these days) and I’m especially impressed with their ongoing fight to promote healthy body image. I’ll never forget my first clothing […]

A SEX+STL Testimonial from J

J is a woman in her 40’s… The Bare as You Dare event held by SEX+STL has, thus far, been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. Having been raised in an extremely religious family (and taught all of the body shame and sex shame that seems to go along with that), and […]

Where are the Orgies?

The other day we got this message from someone: “I was just curious if there was anywhere (clubs, private parties, etc.), in which people are there to just enjoy sex. Perhaps orgy style, but more clean and fun. Please email any ideas you may have. Thanks!!” but when we wrote back, the email address was […]

SEX+STL Presents: A Fistful of Dollars!

Our first ever FISTING DEMO and PLAY PARTY! Friday, June 13, 2014 8pm PT’s in Centreville, IL This is our last event before we take a break for the summer, so get your tickets and watch us go out with a BANG! Activist and Exhibitionist Kendra Holliday of The Beautiful Kind will be taking on […]

Play Parties: What’s In It For Me?

A guest post by Henry Lee (This article is based on a talk I gave on March 16, 2014 at Shameless Grounds.) So what is a play party? Some people might say it’s just a nice term for an orgy, but it can actually mean a lot of different things. A play party is any […]

Pussy Party 3!

We keep having awesome events in St. Louis! Let me tell you something about hosting edgy, sexually themed events in the Midwest – it’s a little bit frustrating. First of all, you get the idea, or the request from someone in the community. You can’t execute it immediately – you have to plan ahead in […]

Herpes Hangout!

So get this – I know a lot of people who have herpes, but they are so secretive about it, they don’t realize how many other people in the community have it as well. So I decided to host an event at Shameless Grounds this Tuesday and invite everyone and anyone to come and learn […]

Scar and Tell Recap

Last night, SEX+STL hosted a clothing optional, Scar and Tell event. This was an opportunity for our members to sit around as naked as they want and share as much as they felt comfortable about the scars they have sustained over their precarious years on this dangerous planet. Scars can be a source of embarrassment […]

Cunnilingus Demo Recap

Last month, SEX+STL hosted our first Cunnilingus Demo. Within a day of posting it on Meetup, we realized we would need to schedule another one later this year – the guest list AND waiting list maxed out in less than 24 hours! Pussy is definitely a hot topic. Pair that with live, educational sex demos […]