How to Get Teens Pregnant

Here is how to ensure teenagers get pregnant and STIs: – shame and scare them – refuse to educate them Sooo… how about we not do that? Our society is obsessed with sex, but for the most part, mainstream culture either avoids frank discussion about sex, or it sensationalizes it in an unhealthy, negative way. […]

How to Get Involved With SEX+STL

One of the most frequently asked questions we get is: “How can I get involved with Sex Positive St. Louis?” We’re so glad you asked! Our group is exciting, titillating, challenging, inclusive, accepting, friendly, and SO MUCH MORE. Our mission has changed lives! We’d love to get to know you and exchange open-minded ideas. There […]

Pussy Party 2 Recap!

This month we hosted our second Pussy Party (here is a recap of our first Pussy Party .) There’s no doubt that every Pussy Party we host will have its own unique flavor. WHAT is a Pussy Party, you may ask? It’s a safe space for women to discuss and share the most intimate feminine […]

Are Single Men Welcome at SEX+STL Events?

With our next clothing optional party coming right up (2nd Annual Fleshtivus!), we’ve had quite a few inquiries from folks new to SEX+STL. Here is an example: Dear SEX+STL, I’m a 45-year-old man who has had a reasonably happy sex life so far, though I started late (at 23). One reason for this late start […]

Blowjob Demo Recap!

The other night Sex Positive St. Louis hosted a blowjob demo. I’ve always wanted to give a demo using a real, live man, instead of a dildo or other prop. The first challenge was finding the right guy for the demo. He had to be someone I liked and trusted, attractive, average-sized, good at receiving […]

Sex and the Seriously Ill

Ed Note: This is a guest post written by B, a 55-yr-old man currently fighting a rare form of blood cancer. There is an undeniably strong connection between sex and physical health. People with active sex lives tend to be healthier. If sex, – especially imaginative sex – is part of your life, you’re likely […]

Hustler Toy Store Tour September 4!

Join SEX+STL Tuesday, September 4 6pm for a FREE special store tour! Hustler Boutique, 9802 Natural Bridge Road, Berkeley, MO. I’m a sex toy EXPERT and I had a sneak preview the other day and it was SO enlightening! I learned about a lot of new toys and products and want to collect them all! […]

The Half the Sky Movement

I am a whore. I am a very happy whore. Specifically, a white, middle-class, healthy, financially comfortable, independent woman who chooses to supplement her income with sex work because I find sex to be very therapeutic and pleasurable and want to share that positivity with others. I think people should be able to choose prostitution […]

A Call for Sluts! – Slut Monologues Seeking Stories

As a proud slut, I wanted to share this message with others: Hello, my name is Joan. I am interested in exploring the possibility of creating a collection of monologues along the lines of the Vagina Monologues, only these would have to do with the notion of “Slut,” i.e., being called a slut, attitudes toward […]

Play Piercing 101

Ed Note: This is a guest post by Courtney, a professional piercer at TRX Studio on S. Grand in celebration of International Body Piercing Day (June 28)! Body piercing has long been used by humans as a way to decorate our skin.  Be it to identify ourselves with a group, express our individuality, or to […]

Using Sex Toys Together

Ed Note: This is a guest post by Brandy. There is a very common misconception that sex toys are individual tools designed only for personal enjoyment. On some very basic level, this can be true, simply because most toys are only designed to please one person, physically, at a time. However, that doesn’t mean that […]

Hustler Hollywood – Our New Sponsor!

SEX+STL is thrilled to announce our new relationship: Hustler Hollywood is in a domestic sponsorship with Sex Positive St. Louis. Be sure and Like their facebook page – click this link to see their latest major announcement! I just saw it and about wet my pants! We’re so excited – we’re kicking it off with […]