Ask SEX+STL: How Do I Find a Woman to Spank Me?

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Q: I have been looking long and hard for someone who will spank me. Seriously. Would you know any trust worthy ladies you could tell me about? Or could you point me in the right direction? Thanks so much.

A: There are two solutions to your situation. One involves an investment of time, the other an investment of money.
If you are willing to spend the money, you could be getting you bare ass smacked by a professional dominatrix in a day or two.
If you’re short on cash, I would suggest getting involved with you local BDSM and/or sex positive community.
Go to munches, play parties, and educational events within the community. Meet people, make friends, etc.
In time you’re bound to meet women who’d like nothing more than to pummel your ass for free, but don’t rush it.
Allow time for people to get to know you, and for you to get to know them. Coming off as as desperate, eager, or otherwise uninterested in the person attached to the spanking hand is a sure-fire path to cold lonely nights with a cold, lonely, unspanked ass.



David Wraith is a co-founder of SEX+STL, the HNIC of Planet Wraith, and a self-described “street-walking cheetah with a heart full of napalm.”