Evolved bendable You Too

There I was, innocently interviewing my friend Holli from Spanky’s on my The Beautiful Kind show, when, at the end of the segment, she asked if I wanted the crazy pink sex toy she had showcased earlier. You know, the one that looked like Pink Panther’s dick doing yoga. Yes, she hooked me up with […]

Stefon Beckons You to Black and White, June 29th

“Black and White: Indifference amongst Difference” looks to be an awesome party. But don’t just take our word for it, listen to this message from our city correspondent, Stefon: Black + White (mp3)

Wear Black & White This Wednesday

Sex Positive St. Louis is proud to present: A shot of the toys donated by Spanky’s for the silent auction: Can’t wait to see what everyone is wearing! It will be my first time reading my erotic writing out loud. There will also be readings from Johnny Murdoc, David Wraith, and Elva Maxine Beach. See […]

How to Meet the Domme of Your Dreams: Part 3

by Mistress Simone Editor’s Note: This is part 3 of a 3 part series. Part 2 can be read here. Top Ten Submissives to Not Be:   1. Micro Manage Me: This sub wants a dominant to control every aspect of their life so they can relinquish responsibility for all. Calling me every five minutes asking […]

Writers are Sexy: Elva Maxine Beach

by David Wraith I adore Elva Maxine Beach! I first met her when we were both performing in a benefit she organized at The Way Out Club. She showed me her book, “Neurotica” and I immediately laid hands upon the woman and prayed for her salvation. Then I read the book and realized I should […]

Lessons from a Simulated Love Affair

This is a guest post from Robin, SEX+STL volunteer and mother of two. Please join us Monday, June 27 for our next Sex Positive Parenting group at Shameless Grounds, 7pm! My favorite Sim is a bit of a cad. Devon is high in charisma, but low in commitment.  He has had 10 girlfriends, each of […]

Barack Obama, Gay Rights, and “Post-Mo”

Forgive me the stream-of-consciousness writing that is this blog post. I’ve spent the past few days writing an essay about Barack Obama’s progress on gay rights. It’s a frustrating task to undertake (especially in light of the events I’m about to write about). I like Obama and I think he’s made great strides in gay […]

How to Meet the Domme of Your Dreams: Part 2

by Mistress Simone Editor’s Note: This is part 2 of a 3 part series. Part 1 can be read here.     Turn-Ons: (God, I feel like a Penthouse Pet): Self Confidence: Not cockiness! Having self knowledge about what you like and dislike enough to communicate it. Wit: Not smart-asses or rudeness. A witty remark […]

Join a kiss-in tomorrow at LUSH to support gay marriage!

I tend to have mixed feelings about corporate-led protests, but I’m pretty fond of LUSH, a bath and beauty products company that aims to eliminate waste in their products, and makes everything with vegetarian ingredients. For full disclosure, we (meaning several of SEX+STL’s co-founders) have a friend who works at LUSH as well (although, to […]

What is a Munch?

  This is a guest post by Naamaire. You may have seen announcements on the Sex Positive St Louis events calendar or BDSM-themed sites that “The South City Whip Club” or some such organization is having a munch at a particular place at a particular time. Maybe you live in the South City area and […]

Bodies, Bodies, Bodies! Gender-Inclusive Sex-Positivity

A guest post by Andy Semler If you were to peek into my bedroom window one evening, there’s a good chance you’d be greeted with the sight of two steamy-hot naked bodies (lucky you!). Mine: slender limbs, white skin, short hair, small breasts, hourglass waist. The other: muscular, white skin, short hair, large bone structure, […]

World Naked Bike Ride 2010

Last year’s World Naked Bike Ride: St. Louis was a bit of a revelation to me. There simply is no experience comparable to riding through the streets of your city with hundreds of other cyclists wearing costumes, underwear, or nothing. Tonight is World Naked Bike Ride 2011, so in order to stir up some excitement, […]