Webster Drag Ball 2011

This time several years ago, I was running around U-City thrift stores looking  for the perfect suit, shirt and hat.  Missouri Council for the Blind came through, as it so often does, and I got a shirt for a surprisingly good price at Rag-A-Rama.  My date loaned me his hat.  There was a lot of […]

Susie Bright is Coming to St. Louis

Author, educator and sex positive pioneer, Susie Bright will be in St. Louis on April 17th & 18th. For those of you who don’t know, Susie Bright has been writing about sex, alternative lifestyles, BDSM, porn and polyamory  for more than two decades. She was the founding editor of the On Our Backs, the first lesbian sex […]

Meet BossBondage April 1!

BossBondage will be in town April 1 presenting classes at The Facility! Though he is also a piercing expert, these classes will be focused on learning the ropes: Intro to Western Shibari and Bedroom Bondage. I asked him some questions in order to get a better handle on what he’s all about: Kendra Holliday: You […]

St. Louis’ First Ever Clothing Optional Tweetup!

Last week I got to model nude in front of 100 people for the “7 Sexy Sins” fundraiser. Most of the people there were in awe and said they could never do something like that, but a few were jealous and wanted to be naked, too. Well, we have an event for you. Sex Positive […]

Pretty Abstract and Very Loud: St. Louis’s Own Drew Digital

by Johnny Murdoc Drew Thompson (aka Drew Digital) is a 28 year old artist from St. Louis and SEX+STL’s latest collaborator in our quest to foster a sex positive environment in the city. His work brings digital artwork alive in a way that has to be seen to be believed, one that can’t be captured […]

7 Sexy Sins Fundraiser!

Sex Positive St. Louis is excited to introduce the next FUNdraiser: 7 Sexy Sins Wednesday, March 16 · 5:30pm – 9:00pm The Stable, Upstairs Loft 1821 Cherokee St. Saint Louis, MO Join us for a Sex+STL Happy Hour and art exhibit featuring the artwork of Drew Digital. Enjoy live DJ’s, nudes to draw, and new […]

Meet Morpheous March 11-13 at The Facility!

Morpheous is a man of mystery. I’ve been curious about him for years, despite him slipping in and out of St. Louis several times, right under my ignorant nose. I FINALLY sniffed him out and nailed him down. I’m proud to say that I’ll be meeting him in the flesh very soon. You can, too, […]

Tales of the City with the Queer Book Club

This is a guest post by Anita Fitzwater. UPDATE: The book club meeting has been moved from Shameless Grounds to Mokabe’s. Check below for the time, date, and new location! Who the hell am I? Well, I’m someone who’s been involved with the Bisexual Alliance of  St. Louis (BASL) for the past two years or so […]

Join SEX+STL Tonight at Shameless Grounds and Naughti Gras 4!

There’s a lot of sexy goings-on this weekend here in Saint Louis, but one event stands out: Naughti Gras 4, Saint Louis’s largest erotic art show. Come out and see erotic art from dozens of great artists, including the work of SEX+STL’s own David Wraith, and SEX+STL friends Molly Algernon and Digital Drew! On top […]

Coffee Talk: Poly 101, February 13th at Mokabe’s

Are you thinking about opening your relationship? Are you poly curious? Are you new to the polyamorous lifestyle? Do you have questions about polyamory that you don’t know who to ask? Are you a poly veteran with wisdom to share? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, then please join SEX+STL at Mokabe’s […]

SEX+STL Goes to the RFT St. Louis Web Awards

SEX+STL attended the first ever Riverfront Times St. Louis Web Awards in honor of or nomination for Best Sex Blog and to support our category’s winner, SEX+STL co-founder Kendra Holliday of The Beautiful Kind. More pictures from the event here.

Privacy & Discretion in the Sex-Positive Community

On January 9, we held a coffee talk meeting discussing privacy and discretion when it comes to navigating your way through all of the exciting outlets of the sex-positive community. We expected about a dozen to attend, but 25 showed up from all walks of life! Here is what we came up with: First of […]